Taken from: http://social.msdn.microsoft.com/Forums/sqlserver/en-US/9802159d-518c-4e7d-bef9-ae6debdd57f7/high-memory-usage-by-sql-server-and-very-slow
-- Find queries that take the most CPU overall
SELECT TOP 50
ObjectName = OBJECT_SCHEMA_NAME(qt.objectid,dbid) + '.' + OBJECT_NAME(qt.objectid, qt.dbid)
,TextData = qt.text
,DiskReads = qs.total_physical_reads -- The worst reads, disk reads
,MemoryReads = qs.total_logical_reads --Logical Reads are memory reads
,Executions = qs.execution_count
,TotalCPUTime = qs.total_worker_time
,AverageCPUTime = qs.total_worker_time/qs.execution_count
,DiskWaitAndCPUTime = qs.total_elapsed_time
,MemoryWrites = qs.max_logical_writes
,DateCached = qs.creation_time
,DatabaseName = DB_Name(qt.dbid)
,LastExecutionTime = qs.last_execution_time
FROM sys.dm_exec_query_stats AS qs
CROSS APPLY sys.dm_exec_sql_text(qs.sql_handle) AS qt
ORDER BY qs.total_worker_time DESC
-- Find queries that have the highest average CPU usage
SELECT TOP 50
ObjectName = OBJECT_SCHEMA_NAME(qt.objectid,dbid) + '.' + OBJECT_NAME(qt.objectid, qt.dbid)
,TextData = qt.text
,DiskReads = qs.total_physical_reads -- The worst reads, disk reads
,MemoryReads = qs.total_logical_reads --Logical Reads are memory reads
,Executions = qs.execution_count
,TotalCPUTime = qs.total_worker_time
,AverageCPUTime = qs.total_worker_time/qs.execution_count
,DiskWaitAndCPUTime = qs.total_elapsed_time
,MemoryWrites = qs.max_logical_writes
,DateCached = qs.creation_time
,DatabaseName = DB_Name(qt.dbid)
,LastExecutionTime = qs.last_execution_time
FROM sys.dm_exec_query_stats AS qs
CROSS APPLY sys.dm_exec_sql_text(qs.sql_handle) AS qt
ORDER BY qs.total_worker_time/qs.execution_count DESC
/**********************************************************
* top procedures memory consumption per execution
* (this will show mostly reports & jobs)
***********************************************************/
SELECT TOP 100 *
FROM
(
SELECT
DatabaseName = DB_NAME(qt.dbid)
,ObjectName = OBJECT_SCHEMA_NAME(qt.objectid,dbid) + '.' + OBJECT_NAME(qt.objectid, qt.dbid)
,DiskReads = SUM(qs.total_physical_reads) -- The worst reads, disk reads
,MemoryReads = SUM(qs.total_logical_reads) --Logical Reads are memory reads
,Executions = SUM(qs.execution_count)
,IO_Per_Execution = SUM((qs.total_physical_reads + qs.total_logical_reads) / qs.execution_count)
,CPUTime = SUM(qs.total_worker_time)
,DiskWaitAndCPUTime = SUM(qs.total_elapsed_time)
,MemoryWrites = SUM(qs.max_logical_writes)
,DateLastExecuted = MAX(qs.last_execution_time)
FROM sys.dm_exec_query_stats AS qs
CROSS APPLY sys.dm_exec_sql_text(qs.sql_handle) AS qt
GROUP BY DB_NAME(qt.dbid), OBJECT_SCHEMA_NAME(qt.objectid,dbid) + '.' + OBJECT_NAME(qt.objectid, qt.dbid)
) T
ORDER BY IO_Per_Execution DESC
/**********************************************************
* top procedures memory consumption total
* (this will show more operational procedures)
***********************************************************/
SELECT TOP 100 *
FROM
(
SELECT
DatabaseName = DB_NAME(qt.dbid)
,ObjectName = OBJECT_SCHEMA_NAME(qt.objectid,dbid) + '.' + OBJECT_NAME(qt.objectid, qt.dbid)
,DiskReads = SUM(qs.total_physical_reads) -- The worst reads, disk reads
,MemoryReads = SUM(qs.total_logical_reads) --Logical Reads are memory reads
,Total_IO_Reads = SUM(qs.total_physical_reads + qs.total_logical_reads)
,Executions = SUM(qs.execution_count)
,IO_Per_Execution = SUM((qs.total_physical_reads + qs.total_logical_reads) / qs.execution_count)
,CPUTime = SUM(qs.total_worker_time)
,DiskWaitAndCPUTime = SUM(qs.total_elapsed_time)
,MemoryWrites = SUM(qs.max_logical_writes)
,DateLastExecuted = MAX(qs.last_execution_time)
FROM sys.dm_exec_query_stats AS qs
CROSS APPLY sys.dm_exec_sql_text(qs.sql_handle) AS qt
GROUP BY DB_NAME(qt.dbid), OBJECT_SCHEMA_NAME(qt.objectid,dbid) + '.' + OBJECT_NAME(qt.objectid, qt.dbid)
) T
ORDER BY Total_IO_Reads DESC
/**********************************************************
* top adhoc queries memory consumption total
***********************************************************/
SELECT TOP 100 *
FROM
(
SELECT
DatabaseName = DB_NAME(qt.dbid)
,QueryText = qt.text
,DiskReads = SUM(qs.total_physical_reads) -- The worst reads, disk reads
,MemoryReads = SUM(qs.total_logical_reads) --Logical Reads are memory reads
,Total_IO_Reads = SUM(qs.total_physical_reads + qs.total_logical_reads)
,Executions = SUM(qs.execution_count)
,IO_Per_Execution = SUM((qs.total_physical_reads + qs.total_logical_reads) / qs.execution_count)
,CPUTime = SUM(qs.total_worker_time)
,DiskWaitAndCPUTime = SUM(qs.total_elapsed_time)
,MemoryWrites = SUM(qs.max_logical_writes)
,DateLastExecuted = MAX(qs.last_execution_time)
FROM sys.dm_exec_query_stats AS qs
CROSS APPLY sys.dm_exec_sql_text(qs.sql_handle) AS qt
WHERE OBJECT_SCHEMA_NAME(qt.objectid,dbid) + '.' + OBJECT_NAME(qt.objectid, qt.dbid) IS NULL
GROUP BY DB_NAME(qt.dbid), qt.text, OBJECT_SCHEMA_NAME(qt.objectid,dbid) + '.' + OBJECT_NAME(qt.objectid, qt.dbid)
) T
ORDER BY Total_IO_Reads DESC
/**********************************************************
* top adhoc queries memory consumption per execution
***********************************************************/
SELECT TOP 100 *
FROM
(
SELECT
DatabaseName = DB_NAME(qt.dbid)
,QueryText = qt.text
,DiskReads = SUM(qs.total_physical_reads) -- The worst reads, disk reads
,MemoryReads = SUM(qs.total_logical_reads) --Logical Reads are memory reads
,Total_IO_Reads = SUM(qs.total_physical_reads + qs.total_logical_reads)
,Executions = SUM(qs.execution_count)
,IO_Per_Execution = SUM((qs.total_physical_reads + qs.total_logical_reads) / qs.execution_count)
,CPUTime = SUM(qs.total_worker_time)
,DiskWaitAndCPUTime = SUM(qs.total_elapsed_time)
,MemoryWrites = SUM(qs.max_logical_writes)
,DateLastExecuted = MAX(qs.last_execution_time)
FROM sys.dm_exec_query_stats AS qs
CROSS APPLY sys.dm_exec_sql_text(qs.sql_handle) AS qt
WHERE OBJECT_SCHEMA_NAME(qt.objectid,dbid) + '.' + OBJECT_NAME(qt.objectid, qt.dbid) IS NULL
GROUP BY DB_NAME(qt.dbid), qt.text, OBJECT_SCHEMA_NAME(qt.objectid,dbid) + '.' + OBJECT_NAME(qt.objectid, qt.dbid)
) T
ORDER BY IO_Per_Execution DESC